We Are All Born For Love


We are all born for love.

It is the principle of existence, and its only purpose.

Benjamin Disraeli, the Prime Minister of Great Britain, expressed these words during the Victorian era in the 1800’s.  Imagine, if today, these words were part of the political dialogue in our present era.  Could you fathom a candidate standing at a podium talking so adamantly about love being our purpose for living?  Yet, when we cut through the puffery of the world and go to the core of our being, and, if we have the courage to speak  from the truth within our hearts, most of us will acknowledge that it is love that warms us, alters us and changes everything around us.

The poet, Robert Browning wrote:

Take away love and our earth becomes a tomb.

Without love, who are we and what are we?  Throughout history, we have seen how civilizations have been ruled from places of hate, self-righteous beliefs, and the harsh divisiveness of judging others as inferior or evil, thus proving that those espousing those sentiments can only be speaking from their own love deprived state.  Mother Teresa, who devoted her life to loving and caring for those in society who were the most likely to view themselves as unlovabe and unworthy, observed:

If you judge people you have no time to love them.

In an earlier post about love, I noted that all great spiritual paths hold love as a commonality.  As a yoga teacher, I know that love is the essence of yoga in its purest form.  We learn to “practice” methods that help us to remember to love ourselves.  Why is it a practice, like learning to do yoga postures and sitting in meditation?  Because it may not come naturally to us — even as it is, in the truest sense, innate within us, we forget just how worthy we are and that we are born with love intact — until we learn to unlearn it. 

Whether we actively embrace a religion or spiritual path or not, loving ourselves, at least to begin, requires changing the way we think. Louise Hay, the woman who is at the forefront of spiritual knowledge, as a best-selling author, speaker, and publisher, and Cheryl Richardson, another best-selling author and coach, have written a new book called You Can Create an Exceptional Life, which includes much insight into using affirmations to help bring change into your life.  At first glance, some might think these are just rote statements that never reach into the depth of our being, but the mind and body have a way of responding even when you don’t realize it.  You have to try using affirmations over a period of time to recognize their strength and potency.  As Louise Hay suggests, as you go about your day, you can say words like this:

I love my life.

I love this day.

Life loves me.

It is wonderful to feel the love in my heart.

Everything I do brings me joy.

Drop the skepticism.  Leave behind your judging , maybe cynical, mind.  Go ahead!  Try it. It can’t hurt.  It can only make you feel better.  Or you can make up your own expressions and affirmations. Just typing these statements puts a smile on my face.  I feel the love flowing from the words and out into the space around me.

Shakespeare wrote:

And when love speaks, the voices of all the gods

make heaven drowsy with its harmony.

We have the chance, in every single minute of our lives, to let love speak.  To ourselves.  To those around us.  And to everyone, circling the globe.

 For more:  www.deannemincer.com and https://deannemincer.wordpress.com



About deannemincer

Deanne Mincer has been a long time student of religious and spiritual studies. For many years, she was a practitioner of yoga and in the late 1980's she was drawn to share her enthusiasm by becoming a yoga teacher. Her certification, from the Himalayan Institute, was a comprehensive two year program including the study of anatomy, diet, nutrition, Ayurvedic medical practices, the methods of teaching hatha yoga, the science of breath and the study of raja (the royal path of yoga) philosophy. She has taught yoga, meditation, and spiritual classes for more than twenty years. In the mid 1990's she became a follower of Siddha Yoga where she experienced a spiritual awakening called shaktipat and her teachings took on a new and freshly informed understanding. As Deanne continued her studies, she learned level one in Reiki and also sutdied with Henry Grayson, Ph.D. where she refined her work with muscle testing and the complex of energy healing methods Dr. Grayson has developed for use with his patients. Dr. Grayson's work is illuminated in his books, Mindful Loving and Use Your Body to Heal Your Mind. Deanne teaches group and private classes in yoga as well as stress reduction programs and meditation in many forms (sitting, walking, whirling, meditation in action, and "sleeping" meditation called yoga nidra). She has developed methods of using yoga in treating those with life threatening diseases as in the programs she designed for Gilda's Club and Friends in Deed in New York City. She was a consulting producer on an alternative health program for CNBC's Alive and Wellness, and she has demonstrated yoga on network television. Deanne created the audio DC, Inner Light Yoga with Deanne Mincer and she has spoken widely and demonstrated meditation in many venues. Deanne is an enthusiastic and joyful teacher. She is known for the keen interest she takes in her students' physical and spiritual development. She stresses that each student should work at their own pace in a non-competitive and caring environment. You can read some of the comments her students have shared in the Tesimonials Section of this site. Her teaching is grounded in her own steadfast spiritual awareness - that each of us is a being of eternal light and love and that we can all come to knowing this truth for ourselves. She is eager to help guide you on this joyful path of body, mind, breath and spirit.

4 responses »

  1. Nothing bet
    ter than to affirm love in our lives… but only 100% of the time and then there will be no room for fear/hate/worry/catastrophic thinking! Love this post and you!!!

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